When I was 14 my mom started calling me fat. She would say your fat, your lazy, your going to end up like your sister(300lbs). My body was stick thin with no butt and big boobs. I already had a job cleaning out horse stalls. FYI: Will make you skinny! But she would do this to me everyday and mostly when I ate in front of her. So I got to the point that I would only eat a few pieces of lunch meat for dinner with a glass of milk. My breakfast was two pieces of toast and a glass of milk. I never ate lunch. Thanks to all that I was 100lbs and 5'4". I still to this day have health problems. Just tell her flat out she needs to stop pushing and love all of you no mater how much it is. Don't diet for anyone but yourself!